Affirmations, affirmations, affirmations. We've heard how important they are to the engineering of one's life. We've heard how essential they are to manifesting one's desires. Why do they work at times and fail to be realized at other times?
I believe it has more to do with how the affirmation is played in your mind's eye that causes it to work or not...that causes the thought to transform into action/creation or not.
If you are a domestic abuse survivor you will want to know this little secret about the proper way to use affirmations to regain your emotional well-being after an abusive relationship.
Read Dr. King's entire article Healing for Verbal and Emotional Abuse: 3 Secrets to Effective Affirmations
Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D., our official Abusive Relationships Expert
i have read this article complete and i like the ways of giving ideas to others, thanks for sharing such a nice article.
Posted by: Mike | November 23, 2010 at 01:03 AM
Affirmations are easy to remember, easy to do, and have a strong impact. Whatever reinforces self-esteem is good, in order to feel better after the abuse.
After so many years of denigrating treatment, we need two kinds of inputs:
a) the affirmations we tell ourselves;
b) positive reinforcement by others.
Nothing is so healing than receiving an appreciative comments from someone we respect. It builds self-esteem and reinforces the good aspects of a person, otherwise humiliated and emotionally insecure.
Now, if we could stop the emotional violence for some time, let's say a month, and have the your wife listen to the silence! she would be comforted with the perception that she still has her soul, regardless of the abuse, to take care of....
healingemotionalabuse.com/blog
Posted by: Neil Warner | November 30, 2010 at 01:45 AM