Stephany Alexander, Our official Dating Expert says:
Some people think that spying is always morally wrong no matter what the circumstances. Others believe that knowing the truth is the most important thing. According to an ongoing infidelity poll conducted by WomanSavers.com of 143,799 women, 54% had caught their man cheating red handed, 54% had suspected but never caught him and 10% had never been cheated on.
Read Stephany's entire article Infidelity Expert, Stephany Alexander, Advises on Whether to Spy on a Mate
If you are worried about infedelity it suggests that intimate relationships are fraught with insecurity. Perhaps you can't believe that anyone can be truly faithful and sincere. Maybe you daren't let your guard down and trust anyone.
If you have to be vigilant and suspicous more often than not, it may be that attachments for you have an uncertain quality, forcing you to look out for cheating and abusive treatment.
It's hard to live with, and often wired into your emotional brain circuitry.
Here are a couple of resources that tell stories of people caught in similar traps, with good advice.
http://howtodealwhenyourbuttonsgetpushed.blogspot.com/
http://wwwcouplesspeakdecoded.blogspot.com/
It's never too late to learn how to be secure and enjoy relationships by trusting and being open for receiving love.
Posted by: Dr. Jeanette Raymond | February 05, 2009 at 07:42 PM