Love Is Blind

Some of my most popular blog entries are about what women want in a man and why many women end up getting treated like yo-yo's. So I thought I'd post a little something here about a series of podcasts I'm doing with Dr. Linda Miles, marriage & family therapist. Dr. Miles is a phenomenal guest and I thoroughly enjoyed our interview. Sometimes I wonder if I missed my calling in life and should have been a therapist because I enjoy learning about human behavior so much.

This interview stands out as one of my favorites because there were so many gems about human behavior, men and women, romance and why we choose the mates we do. There's also some great stuff about why people repeatedly make poor choices in love relationships and how to break the cycle.

The first segment is

Love - Are You In a Chemical Romance?

They don't say "love is blind" for no reason. Dr. Linda Miles, Marriage & Family Therapist, discusses the role chemistry plays in relationships. Can your brain and your body trick you into making poor relationship choices? Find out in this fascinating segment of the CreateAWOW Podcast! You may also visit Dr. Miles at www.DrLindaMiles.com

MP3 File (18 minutes)

Tune in to the CreateAWOW podcast over the next few days and weeks as we release more enlightening segments with Dr. Miles.

Comments

[Kerry]

What an incredible interview! I loved every minute and will listen again. Every young woman -- and romance writer -- in the world should hear this. :)

[Dr. Linda Miles]

Glad Kerry liked the interview. I want young women to hear reality tales about lasting love.Instead of looking impulsively for love in all the wrong places,women need a mental map of a relationship between two givers. As Nelson Mandela observed, "A good head and a good heart are always a formidable combination." I suggest that a woman write down the qualities she wants in a relationship based upon her deepest values and then go head first into a relationship by insuring that a potential partner fills the bill. She may feel strongly attracted to a taker type, but needs to consult her list before exchanging phone numbers. She needs to remember that learning about someone is like a connect the dots picture. In the beginning you have only 5 out of 500. She needs to connect many dots before making any commitment. How does he act with her family? friends? young children? Once she can connect enough dots to feel safe then she can gradually commit. My hope is that women can learn this process when they are young. We spend more time teaching girls how to drive a car than how to maintain a loving and lasting relationship.

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